Improving Your Manners will increase your daily success

August 21, 2014

"Good Manners" are always fashionable, in good taste and in the season.  As we strive to live out our life as a whole person, expressing success and goodness in every aspect of living "Good Manners" is a wonderful attribute to cultivate and practice. we live in a world that is filled with unhappy people that are rude, hostile, angry, and addicted to displaying "Bad Manners." As a successful professional "Bad Manners" on our part are never acceptable

It is very easy to display bad manners without realizing it. O Monday l was at lunch with a fellow business partner "MJ" and we were listening to a conference call on my cell phone. There were two elderly ladies in the next booth that kept looking at me. I thought they were thinking, "Wow what a good looking man that guy is!" My head and ego grew by the moment until they got and gave me a stern "Rebuke" on how rude l was and bad manners l showed by blasting that call on my speaker phone in public while people were eating. Thank God for "Extra Strength" Poly Grip or the Rebuke would have knocked my choppers right out of my head.

She was right, how rude of me to display of "Bad Manners" on my part!

Success is about personal and self-management, self-evaluation and self-improvement. We must always evaluate improve and adjust our behavior and conduct, both personally and professionally. The biggest common denominator of bad habits is "Uncontrolled Language" Derogatory Language is a very unattractive character trait that does not fit a growing, successful leader and wealthy business professional.

Would you want a dentist working on your teeth while every other word were, That Blank so and so is one dumb....." Or how about a proctologist telling you "Bend over while I shovel this thing up your........!" Why, if that would ever happen you would be at your attorneys office filling a complaint.

"Good Manners" goes far beyond our words, but penetrates our actions, thinking and methods of dealing with people. "Bad Manners" is always letting others pay for our meals. "Good Manners" is always picking up the check for your guests. I can always detect the true character, bank account and future success of a person by observing what they do when the check comes.

I always make it the nonnegotiable habit of picking up the check when eating out with friends and business guests. Many times, when I am out with a new person that wants to do business or an associate with me I will take them out to eat. Without them knowing I will hand the waiter my Credit card and tell them to pay the bill and just bring the receipt in the little black book and do not say anything. After we are done eating and the waiter brings what looks like the check and puts it on the table. I will just sit there without making a move to see what the other person does.

I have had them get up to make a phone call, go to the restroom, or keep talking without stopping and move from subject to subject. I have found if someone displays "Bad Manners" from the start, they will display it throughout the entire relationship and its best to part ways then and there with a smile.

What single woman thinks a man would make a good future husband that was cheap and displayed "Bad Manners"? Check your Manners constantly and observe the manners of other. Good and Bad Manners speak volumes! My Millionaire Mentor taught me over 30 years ago, "Don always pick up the check." In those early days in 1980 l would take people out to dinner and silently pray "Dear Jesus, please them order water and a salad." Sometimes they would but most of the time they ordered Shrimp and Steak along with a salad."

Written by Don and Melinda Boyer


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The key to success "IS" we become what we think about!

January 8, 2014

The weather has set the tone, for the New Year in 2014, cold and harsh. We all want to succeed, build a financial retirement plan that will allow us to enjoy the reasons we have dedicated and worked so hard. The problem is we have forgotten to plan this strategy. Why is that?

We are all humans, so much going on in our daily life's, and we forget to put some money towards a retirement plan. Investing with time is a commodity you will never, ever have the opportunity to get back, regardless of how much money you have or do not have.

The question is, in the morning when you wake up, is this the person you see in the mirror in your bathroom mirror? You're more than likely have a set of words you use, each and every morning! Why me, how did I get myself so behind, all I ever get is more bills? You're no different than most people in society! Not even your fault; to be upfront, and honest with you!

So where did you go wrong? You used the money for other reasons, somewhere good, but a few were bad reasons. We failed to plan our retirement future. The good thing is, we still have time to re-direct our financial future. This is really possible, not going to be easy at all, why would it be? If you have an interest, then you might want to read more?

The first thing you need to do is stop doing things you hate doing! They waste human energy and more than likely assets you cannot afford to use unwisely. So many books have been written on this topic, with very little results for one simple reason, we doubt our abilities. This is the hardest change you will ever need to make, your mindset, not a simple concept at all.

A mindset is the most important investment you will ever make, for the reason you're determined to achieve your wishes in life. We do have this ability, Earl Nightingale, shares the strangest secret, an absolute masterpiece. Listen to this masterpiece, yes it is old, but raw facts that provide results in your journey with success.

Forget all the click bank links, that promise you will make x amount of millions. If you really want to plan a financial future, listen to this over and over until it becomes reality. You will find that key, you really will, because you're investing in the most important asset, you will ever invest in, your mind.

See everything you apply in your daily life, came from this original material, everything else has been watered down, missing important ingredients, that provide the correct receipt for success in whatever it is that you define success with. Why do men with goals succeed in life and them without them fail?

This is all you really need to really understand, the strangest secret is a concept that is over looked, for the simple reason it is really that simple. The key to success is, we become what we think about. Learn this concept and you will never worry about any financial obligation again.

So let's get back to your retirement plan if you're interested in saving some money, not spending it, but investing a future with your financial obligation, then you may want to invest a little time and review this video. If you're tired of the fiat currency then you will benefit from this investment.

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If your going to invest, then you need to learn the five "P's"

May 7, 2013,

The days, weeks and months are flying by, so much happening daily, how would one understand all the trends that occur daily from an investor's standpoint of options. Very confusing even from the most gifted, seasoned financial adviser's.

So a question is what do you do? Not really a good question to be thinking of, but one that needs attention. We read so much here on the internet, but it has one goal what is the benefit to them the sellers. Who do you trust or invest your time in? Time is really the only logical thing l can think of, you can never buy it back.

See this makes sense something you can never have back is a demand just like gold, it can not be printed or reproduced it's a one shot deal. The key element is how are you going to review your investments, and understand what l am sharing with the five p's.

The results you will ever achieve is the most expensive investment you will ever make, l say this for the simple reasons, the results are only three percent who will use this wisely and most will fall into the 97 percent of failure. Most humans can not afford to invest in time. So it really has no competitive market, would you not agree? so if you going to invest, then you need to understand them five P's.

This is your next step>>


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So You Joined a Multi Level Marketing Company, Now What?

January 24, 2013

Yea you had a reason for joining this type of investment, I use the word investment for many reasons you can find out the hard way, part of an education process. Learning is a good way to learn when you invest your hard earn dollar, looking for that magical dust. The program will lead you to the land of milk and honey! What a surprise the numbers do not jive as indicated your heading in the wrong direction initially.

Now, what? You said these words l am going to make this work; the only problem is you have said this too many times. The definition of insanity is, do the same things over and over and expect different results. Laws of gravity just do not work on your favorite back to the thinking board. See the problem is your looking for a quick fix and not getting a return on your UN-affordable investment. Indeed, it's not looking good at all for future results

You need to have a mindset that is different, what l mean is you need to become the focus of what you genuinely desire and then the rest is a procedure that l will provide you with for increasing your odds in achieving success finally steps in the right direction. My team trains leaders who will have the ability also to train leaders, and you get the picture.  We provide a proven carbon copy that will allow you to start at a point of building a solid future foundation of financial benefits.

It's a future provider of a monthly residual income that will only grow for many reasons once you decide to review the steps l will lay out to access all the financial benefits. Not going to cost you a dime, see that is too easy we all have credit cards. The investment l want you to do,  is what l wrote about a couple of days ago. The best investment you will ever make is in your abilities to succeed in what it is your desire. It's what you will get as a Partner of our team. 

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"Learning These Four Words will Provide You with Achieving New Success"

October 3, 2012

We all have an ability to make decisions that will meet or exceed our legitimate expectation of what we see and visualize as our "New" future. See the principals for these types of performance and success was written and overused by many who only had one goal, to generate income for you. Back in 1937, a very particular book was written, no need for me to mention the book we all know it. One of the biggest sellers of this day, the only difference is we download this book now. But the information and secrets of success, have never changed at all.

I write what I see will provide you information that has the ability for you to grow with this group and it's concept or an entirely different one. The key is, it will provide you with enough pertinent information for you to make intelligent decisions on your journey to meet or exceed your financial obligation without any worries. Why I decided to choose the 3% of the top earners, why they are hard to find, provides me exactly why I designed and created the "Welcome to Karatbars International on LinkedIn."

It'show I will build what l started, one member at a time we buy one gram at a time, providing us with a solid learning foundation that is a carbon copy, training, sharing and grow as a "TEAM." See the benefit is for you to decide and see the power and what you visualize with the growth of the most impressive return on your investment, that is also rescission proof. Taking the advice of this very important book teach what it taught me. Hell, it has been successful since 1937, impressive track record.

Going to share four words with you that will make a difference in your overall life if you learn what the correct meaning of each word means. then apply it and learn why it is important. If you follow these words, you will understand yourself much better. You will ask and re-thinking many situations as you have in the past. These "Four Words" will guide you to your dreams. The type of training you will get from me, this is my word and now learn how to use them.


Make these words work for you

-THOUGHTS
-EMOTIONS
-ACTIONS
-RESULTS

How I will end this article, with a story that has meaning for me, someone who understands what it takes, knows what he did and, more importantly, know's what he has to do.

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Well November is here and October is done!

November 4, 2011
A new month and new goals for all of us to achieve, we all have ambition and determination to achieve our financial goals in life. I have read many books, but one always stands out for me, written by Napoleon Hill, in his book “Think and Grow Rich” he speaks about the mastermind plan. The mastermind plan is about duplication and getting results done. Having a group of minds developing and sharing concepts, ideas and making them all grow without boundaries.


Without boundaries, what key phrases to have! The opportunity to achieve what the minds have created and the ability to take action on your new found opportunities. We all have this ability, but to accurately, efficiently and have the determination to achieve your dreams is a step most of us never achieve. Why is that? We all get distracted by our mind, thoughts, personal surroundings, obstacles in your life has an effect on this creative thinking.

Working as a team, creates a very positive atmosphere, motivating one another to achieve the goals that were written to be performed and reap the rewards of success. The internet has become so competitive with so many unrealistically affiliated programs that promise you success without any work involved. No recruiting, no sponsoring, no need to get your family involved, etc., etc. We all have read countless, splash pages, landing pages that lead you to that promised land of milk and honey.

So what is my point for taking the time and writing this article if it has no direction, solution or meaningful information that will enhance your abilities and talents. The point is “Marketing is an Art,” how you rank, promote, showcase your first impression is the most important step you can achieve. Why l created the “APSense Blog TO support WRITERS WITH TALENT,” who share information that would help us all achieve success by helping one another out.

Everyday l read article after article, view sites, blogs, forums and most are just after one thing them self’s why many do not stick to the dream that was written. When you have support from a team of winners, you will always be reminded of how to get where you are going if you get off track. I will promote, your articles as l have always in the past, APSense is now Ranking 3,400, let’s get under 3,000 before Christmas. How do we do this, understanding how rankings are determined by the World Wild Web?

Creating Backlinks, leaving comments on blogs, following other blogs, understanding how the “Bounce Ratio” works within the spiders that crawl your site and provide you with a score. The bounce ratio, good and original content is an important bloodline in your success for page ranking, SERPs, and indexing your articles. I would like to post at least four articles a day on the APSense Blog from different members. Items that our readers, followers will benefit from reading and sharing our knowledge so we all can benefit from our efforts.

Thank you for taking the time in reading this article, if you got this far! Now all you need to do is applying what you learned and found useful from this article. Do your homework, not a get rich piece, just one that will make you a lot of money when you follow these steps.

But l have written many articles on this subject, review what l have writing on this topic, check the groups l created and you will understand one thing. I did it because if you become successful, then l got my prize l helped you become successful.

All the Best,

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How Alexa Ratings Benefit Your Home Business

October 14, 2011

There are a lot of great tools for the home business owner, such as social media, marketing, Google Webmasters, Wonder Wheel, Analytics, and so many more. But the tool that I want to talk about today is Alexa and the benefits of having a high Alexa rating. Some of those benefits include bringing traffic to your site, bringing you targeted leads, gaining instant credibility and offering you even more earning opportunities.

Alexa Helps Your Credibility

Your Alexa rating shows that you are working every day at your business. It indicates that you don’t treat your business as a hobby; you treat it as your own business with the professionalism that it deserves. How it does this is because, even without your Alexa rating or even Google rating, you are driving traffic to your site just by adding new information consistently. If you are offering respected information that is of value to others they are staying on your site to read it and to look for more details. Alexa sees that and uses it to rate your site. It can tell if you have a poorly kept site that offers little to now value. SO the higher your Alexa rates in respect to your keywords, the better and more valuable Alexa sees your site. Knowing that, it is clear to see why a higher rating in Alexa automatically gives you instant credibility.

Alexa Helps Your Site’s Traffic

A higher Alexa rating helps bring in more traffic to your site because it shows to others that:

1. You are consistently adding new information.

2. You are offering valuable content that people tend actually to stay on your page and read.

3. You value the time that you put into your site.

There are some other reasons that Alexa can bring you more traffic, but these three are the key ones.

By the way, if you are not doing the three things, consistently adding new information, offering valuable content, or value the time that you put into your site, it will show in your ratings.

Alexa Helps You Get Targeted Leads

Chances are if you get a lead from your site, that person already knows quite a bit about your business style, your credibility and already has a sense of trust towards you. They also are already interesting in working with you because they feel that you have the qualities of a leader that they are looking for.

You really can’t get more laser-targeted than that! How your Alexa rating helps you get these leads or prospects is simply by getting that extra flow of traffic to your site of people who, before even visiting your page, have value to offer to them.

Alexa Helps bring you More Earning Opportunities

There are going to be a lot of people looking for your site because of your high rating on Alexa, but it is not only going to be prospects or people interested in your business. Other individuals who use Alexa for their activities are marketers looking for good websites to place their advertisements on. There is a good chance that you will have offers from people or companies, with a product or service that relates to your business, asking you to allow them to pay you to place an advertisement on your site. It also opens the door to other opportunities such as joint ventures.

No matter what your home business or even your product is having striving to achieve a higher rating on Alexa could mean a world of difference to your company. It really can be an excellent source to focus on to help you build your business consistently and successfully.

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Article was written by Mick Hastings

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Nutritional Specialist

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When you Hate Things, Transform them Into Goals

June 17, 2011

If we all go back into our childhood, we will recall and only pursued things we enjoyed and loved. How could you stop playing your favorite game as a child only cause you sat on the bench and you hate that feeling? The important thing here is you never forgot what it felt like when you cheered on your teammates and loved the celebration when the game came to an end. You would always come back the follow day and practiced hard to get your opportunity to shine.

We all got older, perhaps wiser; we decided to avoid all the confrontation regarding all the things we hated and started avoiding them instead of meeting them head on. We started to thinking entirely differently here, instead of getting excited about next's weeks game, we only thought about how we had failed at the previous match.

We just forgot of how much we loved the game we all played as kids, only concentrated on our defeats instead of thinking of the fences or whatever sport you enjoyed as a child. The mind has that ability to make or break your progress, we all forget we have this ability to revise it before it becomes the success of our choice.

If you have this type of thinking, who is at fault here, who do you blame, how do you correct it? It's a fact that happened to me, and l will share it with all who reads this article. When l down fault back on 2004, my dad told me one thing that l never forgot, and very glad l listened to him. He said to me you want to see the real problem! I looked at him and said yes l would appreciate that information, will then go to the bathroom and look in the mirror you will see the problem.

Take your time and re-read this again, you will understand life is all about how we program our attitudes. When we program it we then have the ability to do whatever it is we programmed our minds to achieve. It's only an article, l feel if you apply this to your life, you will understand the real meaning of benefiting from your hate obstacles in life.

All the Best,

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What Makes Apsense so Different From other Social Sites

April 30, 2011

I feel like an absolute "NEW" member right at this very moment. I have been away from here, most of you know why nothing to do with APSense's at all, due to the loss of my dad back in early June of this year. I have been a member of Apsense since the beginning of the days, so do have an idea of what l am going to share with ALL who reads this. Since today is his Birthday, l decide to come back made perfect sense to me!

The reason l find it hard ever to leave for the very simple fact, you will not find any other Social Site you join the tools and the opportunity you have at your fingertips. Not a get rich site; no promises made towards your success and what l mean by that you can enjoy all the features for free if you decide to stick around. What good are all the characteristics, if you never learn how to use them effectively.

Getting back to my point on why l feel like a new member, for the changes and improvements that the team within Apsense has made for all of us to benefit the rewards from. How many other Social Sites change features and provide you with all the advantages you have here to use effectively as changes on the internet occur daily. I came back, and l was lost for about 32 seconds. l said wow this is entirely different; I tested the new stuff out one by one. Created my first Rev Page, checked out all the different areas l needed too.

Now how many people can say that about other sites having an impact with features that have been revised, improved and most of all able to promote you more efficiently than three months ago. Why they care, the more we work within Apsense, the more back links we created with in the web. Sorry, what is the cost again for being a member. Not necessary most will never upgrade or be able to effectively use the system, but we need them also. TWhy you fail, actually at any site.

Learn the system here at Apsense, promote your product with out having to use Spam. Set up your profile is the very first step in our community, use your real picture. People will buy from a real person, not from some dumb picture that has been posted by you. You're in business to make money, l hope l am correct, and you have this burning desire for success. If you understand what l just wrote, you will go back to your home page and review your Business Center.


Success comes to all who have a burning desire, means one thing was working smart within the team, learning from other members, joining groups. By the way, l created a couple of groups and planned on carrying out each and every missions statement l promised all who joined one of my groups. Yea l been away but not l am back, going to make sure Apsense becomes the biggest Social Site in the industry. See if this happens several things will happen you will all become very successful, if you learn what Apsense will teach you and what you get to form other members.

I am going to add links and reliable information to make sure you all become successful and re start my journey on making Apsense the most successful Social Site on the internet. But l need your loyal support and a burning desire to chase a dream that will all have. Starts right after you read this blog, you need to do one thing in life change your attitude. If you're in for the money not happening, you need to earn it before you can have it then you can spend it, buy things and enjoy a beautiful life with money.

Over the next few days, i will revise this blog and promote it.


All the Best,

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What Do You do on Monday Mornings

April 4, 2011

IF YOUR AN AVERAGE PERFORMER AND YOU WANT TO BECOME a star!

-What do you do on Monday Mornings?

-Start by taking a hard look at yourself and at the star performer?

-Ask yourself, "What are they doing that l am not doing"?

-What am l doing that gets in my way?

-Then become a student of the stars: Do what they do!!


Try it for a while. You all know you're making progress when you start hearing it from your colleagues. They all start asking you to be on their team. You all start getting calls from people asking you for information. You all know your efforts are working because you all find that you are being included in the stuff that counts.


The good news is, all of these skills can be learned. Becoming a star at work is like improving your golf or tennis game. You identify your bad habits and the improvements you need to put in place---and then you practice those improvements every day.


Hope you have a great week with this little bit of information on how

All the Best,

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Apsense Members do help One Another!

October 28, 2010

September 25, 2007 (original date written)

Been a member now for almost two weeks, how time travels so fast when you're having so much fun on here. Still learning all that l can, l been learning mostly from reading the How To Sections, of This Community and a lot from the members who have been wonderful on here with providing me with information and feedback on questions l have asked.

I have formed a few groups l need some New Administrators, Members and some feedback on my groups that l have created. I feel this is the best way to learn what you're doing right or wrong, constructive feedback from the members

If you have the time to review what l have done and provide me with some feedback l would greatly appreciate it and l will do the same for you if you would like me too.

I suppose the best place to start is going to my Business Center and checking out all that l have done and the groups that l would welcome New Members and Administrators to help me provide the best possible information l can provide and help me with any advice that you can provide me with.


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Please don' forget to review my quote of the week l hope it brings something positive into your life as you read them each and every week that l change them.

The power of affirmation is the most powerful thing that most of us never use in our daily lives. My favorites one that l use every day is reminding me with these words that l will quote.


I Believe Something Wonderful Is Going To Happen to Me Today

Try this for yourself for one week and you will see the magic of Affirmation work for you as you will become more positive and good things will start happening for you before you know it.

Once again thank you for taking your valued time in reading what l had to share with our members l hope it was very positive and upbeat and WE BOTH learned something from one another.

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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