Parents have the ability to control the confidence in a Child

April 23, 2011

I wrote this article back on the below date came across it and decided it had value for all us parents to learn from this article. I will provide a link to the original article, and you can read all of the comments made...

October 30, 2007

Parents have the ability to control the confidence in kids

This happened to me last night l watched this young man my son walking from the dressing room, he had just played the worse possible game, and no one knew it more than him. He was fighting the puck all night, without any or much support from his teammates. I watched his body language which indicated that his self-esteem, confidence was at the lowest form it could be at.

I keep an eye on him every step as he got closer and closer to all of the parents who like myself were waiting for their son's, he looks at me and say's dad don't say a word, please. I walked with him as we passed all the other parents, not a single word was spoken in fact they turned their backs on us. I was hoping to hear a sound or a word or two of encouragement some team spirit, but none was shared with us as we both walked out of the arena.


I had never felt so much pain as l did at that moment in time, more pain then when l lost most of my wealth in 2004. Here is a young adult and he had just learned one of the most valuable lessons in life, human behavior at its best. I told him, what you felt and seen tonight will prepare you for what to expect in life, humans will always have the reaction in a manner that will create friction.

I told him of how proud l was, for him holding his head up high as he walked by the other parents, you did it the right way. I was on my mind the whole hour plus drive home, the looks from the other parents, it was like we were something that didn't even existed.

So when l got home l spent about an hour composing an email to all the parents and shared my feelings and thoughts of what we had just experienced and asked one very simple question how would you have reacted if it was you in my shoes and you son in my son's shoes. Perhaps some of you have shared my experience, and perhaps other never will truly understand what had happened. The bottom line it's only a game yes at a high level, and the expectations are great but are we not forgetting one thing these kids are only 13 and 14 years of age.

Did l do the right thing by sending an email out last night, l know one thing my wife will provide me with an earful, but she wasn't there to feel what we felt last night.


All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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Why is a Testimonial important, at APSense or is It?

April 22, 2010

I been here at APSense for a long time, have to watch much come and go, it happens part of the process. Iit's like the song "Still Have Not Found What I am Looking For" but every so often you do encounter a member who has talent, desire and most of all the ability to just do it.

I being am honest l was very impress with her on her first day, l did guide her in the correct direction and what she asked at the tim. Wow she had it all figured out how can you not be impressed by someone who just listened to you... If you take some time and review this member, her name is Belinha Fernandes. I decided to write her a testimonial, on her first day, never did that before to anyone here just fact.

When she read that testimony, she was having an off day, and when she read it, it inspired her to get herself motivated and work at what she loves doing. Positive feedback is something you have to earn, with respect and most of the lead like a leader.

When you take the time to appreciate what we all have here, we understand the ability to share and make each us as successful as we possibly can. You can not buy a testimonial here if you; do it has "NO VALUE".

So when you looking other members profiles scrawl down and review and read the section of Testimonials, see how many they have what it say's you know the good ones from the bad ones but each one had a meaning.

I am also going to post this to the APSene Blog, providing Belindha Fernandes a larger audience of networkers who understanding Marketing at this level.

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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Network Champs, Let's Get started

April 20, 2011

Network Champs was developed by Lonnie Niver, Gilberto Cintron and myself (Joseph F. Botelho) today as part of "Building an Empire" that will provide us the ability to grow as a "Team" on Facebook with endless backlinks.

Network Champs, has only one concept in mind, and that is to make you as successful as you are willing to be. This program will only work if we all understand how Network Champs works, very simple. The concept we have developed is all about duplicating each others efforts, the more we get involved, the more powerful this system becomes. You will become part of this Team, see there is no one in the word Team; you will have the support leadership and step by step proven formula for success.

It's hard work, commitment, not a get rich scheme just a useful vehicle for getting us to understanding what Living The Dream is all about. Gilberto and Lonnie, l trust their abilities 100 percent, when we decided to do this, we had a reason and a solid game plan. As we grow and spread the knowledge of this groups concept, you will understand one thing!

"You Will Be Glad to be Part of this Group."


More information to enhance our direction coming your way. We will keep you informed and provide our group with instructions for all of us to become the best we all can be.

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All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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From Setbacks to Getting Back Your Life!

April 16, 2011

From Setbacks to Getting Back Your Life!

There is never a better time in your life to set a new standard of goals when you have had; a real bad setback in your life. This is when it will count the most, you need new directions for you to reach out and get your life back. It happened to me back in 2004, l took a very large hit, but l listen to my dad who told the answer was in the mirror. God bless him, he was so correct, my attitude was not functional for what l just went through.

The hardest thing for any of us to admit is that we failed. and it was not my fault and make up the obstacles that will hold you back from obtaining the success; and your life back. You need to find and develop a new positive attitude for you to reach your new spiritual and financial goals.

The question here is how do "YOU" perform this transition? What l have heard and still hear is many of us have a hard time accepting setbacks in life. The key factors you need to fully grasp and understand is you need to let go of things that have happened to you and please forget about putting a whole new set of objectives in front of ourselves.

The main reasons are that our self-esteem has been shattered and have very little desire or motivation that it will take you to accomplish these new goals and find the success we all dream about. Just remember these words on this topic.

Show me a person male or female who's never made a mistake, and l will tell you one thing they have never done a thing in their life's this is a fact.

A mistake in life is part of reminding us that we are only humans and should encourage us to step out on a limb, and try something different.

Apply this newly founded attitude as an opportunity to sharpen your knife, and become more creative in your life!!

When you watch this man overcoming the most tragical consequence that one had to deal with as a child, then as an adult you will understand and found the courage to fight back and get your life to where it use to be.




Are you this person All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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Look at Yourself after YOU Watch This Video

April 16, 2011

Look at Yourself after YOU Watch This Video,

When you watch this video several things are going to race through your mind like it did with me, you may cry tears of joy or perhaps tears of sadness. You will also forget all of your problems and you will change your perspective in your daily life.

All your problems will become smaller than they have every been. But you have to take the time and watch this video, it will have an impact on your total view of "YOUR LIFE"


This man is now my hero..this will change your attitude in Life

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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APSense Fishing Community is Looking For New Ideas!!

April 15, 2011

APSense Fishing Community is Looking For New Ideas!!


This community is now off and running without your support and talents it will never be what it should become. Just a great fishing community, marketing is all about spreading your talents on the internet, how you market your abilities will showcase your raw talents.

We all know and understand how to copy and paste articles, and make them look like we actually spend some time thinking and became a creative writer. I have written this article several times each one started differently and had other key points l wanted to share and indicate what original content is all about. It is all about the love for doing what we do, write and teach others to become the best they can be.

Spend some time re-read this article, not being cocky just illustrating that we all have raw talents that we never use. Why it is lonely at the top, as they say....l just heard that, have not been there lately......APSense has so many tools and features to enhance your abilities that no one ever learns them features.

Check our ratings with Alexa Ranking, see how we have grown in popularity among "Social Media Sites" in the last few years. We have a solid foundation, great support from the APSense Team, our founder Wincer Song.

Now the rest is up to you to use and enhance all you have to become successful with your marketing skills. We have it all here, l been around this game for a very long time, yea l used and learn "DOS"....

.Marketing has not Changed, what has changed is how we MARKET...


CHECK THIS COMMUNITY OUT NOW

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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Duplicate Content and Article Submission - Get the Facts

April 11, 2011

Duplicate Content and Article Submission - Get the Facts

Article submission is one of the best ways to get backlinks for your website, which can lead to increased traffic and more sales. The algorithms that create search engine rankings are secret, but one thing Internet marketers know is that backlinks are a major component. The more backlinks that you have related to a specific keyword phrase, the more likely that you’ll rank well for that specific keyword phrase.

Understanding that, the goal for Internet marketers becomes getting quality backlinks to their websites from as many websites as possible. In an attempt to do so, many marketers post the same article to several different article directories. While each of these article directories represents several backlinks to your website, there’s also the concern of duplicate content.

In addition to using backlinks to weigh the importance of a website, Google uses duplicate content filters to remove duplicate instances of the same content from search results. This is done to prevent website publishers from stealing content from others and publishing it as their own.

But does this apply to article directories? If you submit articles to several different article directories, will your content get caught in the duplicate content filters?

There is no definitive word on what constitutes duplicate content and what does not – but Google does try to find the original source of the content and place that first in the search engine results. This means that your website with your article will appear in your article on EzineArticles.com in the search engine results. Your main website gets preference in search engine rankings.

Your article in Ezine Articles.com and other article directories may also be safe because the duplicate content filters are specifically looking for plagiarized content. Anything you submit to an article directory is considered to be syndicated to that directory. You’re doing the submitting so you’re obviously not plagiarizing yourself. Other individuals can get in trouble if they steal your content from your site or the article directory and post it on their own website. But your article submissions will be safe.

With this in mind, what should you do to make sure that your article directory submissions are going to give you the best results? Here are three important tips to remember.

1. Use original content.

Even though your articles will be distributed over many different directories, your primary article should be original. It shouldn’t be spun or rewritten from another source. This can really affect the quality of the content and even if it isn’t caught by duplicate content filters, it could get you caught by the article directories.

2. Use the right keywords.

Effective article marketing is all about choosing the right keywords. Make sure you do keyword research first and avoid shooting into the dark with your writing and article distribution. Use your target keyword as your anchor text for your backlinks.

3. Create a strong call to action.

Traffic from distributed articles will come from the backlinks and readers who like what you have to say and click on your link. Make sure that your bio box includes a strong call to action that will motivate your reader to take the next step with you.


Written by,

Darren Olander

Thank you Darren for a very educational article.. 


All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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