What has Fear have to do with our Success?

February 18, 2016

What is fear first of all? Fear is an obstacle that can hold you back from whatever it is you set out to accomplish in life.  Is fear an emotional state of your mind or is it something else.  Most of us create this illusion that we do not have what it takes to move on with our lives. But actually, fear is a motivator; that we did not even know until we encounter that fear.

We when meeting concerns our whole body and mind changes drastically to challenge that obstacle we have just met regardless of what we are up against.  Think of the times you have encountered fear and how you put up your guards to protect yourself from that fear or you ran away from it, but you did react to in a different manner.  Fear can hold us back, for the simple reason, it takes full control over our emotions and mind.

Fear often interferes with our ability to live more fulfilling lives. Fear is the critical voice in our head saying: "You'll never succeed, so why to try?” Fear makes us listen to those voices and give up before we've even started.  So how do we handle our fears and overcome them, so they do not hold us back from success? Don't beat yourself up over mistakes you've made in the past and being fearful of starting new relationships, jobs, etc. That gets you nowhere. Call a mistake an "opportunity for learning" and seek the learning in every "mistake".

When we let fear rule our lives, we miss out on opportunities and leads us to dismiss people and situations that could help us reach our goals. Fear comes in different guises and various forms - procrastination for example.  Learning how to deal with fear is your first step to overcoming fear.

Here are a few key points that will help you deal with your fears learning and be able to handle is the first step in overcoming some of your fears.

-Get to know your fears
-Get to know the source of your fears
-Step into the things feared
-Make the negative flow stop
-Enlighten all
-Financial obligations
-Providing for our loved ones

-This list can grow beyond our belief, with all kinds of fears we face.

Logically, to overcome your fears, you have to be aware of their existence first.  Once you learn what concerns you have and why they have an effect on your performance, you will be able to overcome them, one at a time.

Make the most of each day

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

Joseph Botelho

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From Setbacks to Getting Back Your Life!

April 16, 2011

From Setbacks to Getting Back Your Life!

There is never a better time in your life to set a new standard of goals when you have had; a real bad setback in your life. This is when it will count the most, you need new directions for you to reach out and get your life back. It happened to me back in 2004, l took a very large hit, but l listen to my dad who told the answer was in the mirror. God bless him, he was so correct, my attitude was not functional for what l just went through.

The hardest thing for any of us to admit is that we failed. and it was not my fault and make up the obstacles that will hold you back from obtaining the success; and your life back. You need to find and develop a new positive attitude for you to reach your new spiritual and financial goals.

The question here is how do "YOU" perform this transition? What l have heard and still hear is many of us have a hard time accepting setbacks in life. The key factors you need to fully grasp and understand is you need to let go of things that have happened to you and please forget about putting a whole new set of objectives in front of ourselves.

The main reasons are that our self-esteem has been shattered and have very little desire or motivation that it will take you to accomplish these new goals and find the success we all dream about. Just remember these words on this topic.

Show me a person male or female who's never made a mistake, and l will tell you one thing they have never done a thing in their life's this is a fact.

A mistake in life is part of reminding us that we are only humans and should encourage us to step out on a limb, and try something different.

Apply this newly founded attitude as an opportunity to sharpen your knife, and become more creative in your life!!

When you watch this man overcoming the most tragical consequence that one had to deal with as a child, then as an adult you will understand and found the courage to fight back and get your life to where it use to be.




Are you this person All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

Joseph Botelho

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— Joseph Botelho (@jfbmarketing) January 19, 2016