From Setbacks to Getting Back Your Life!

April 16, 2011

From Setbacks to Getting Back Your Life!

There is never a better time in your life to set a new standard of goals when you have had; a real bad setback in your life. This is when it will count the most, you need new directions for you to reach out and get your life back. It happened to me back in 2004, l took a very large hit, but l listen to my dad who told the answer was in the mirror. God bless him, he was so correct, my attitude was not functional for what l just went through.

The hardest thing for any of us to admit is that we failed. and it was not my fault and make up the obstacles that will hold you back from obtaining the success; and your life back. You need to find and develop a new positive attitude for you to reach your new spiritual and financial goals.

The question here is how do "YOU" perform this transition? What l have heard and still hear is many of us have a hard time accepting setbacks in life. The key factors you need to fully grasp and understand is you need to let go of things that have happened to you and please forget about putting a whole new set of objectives in front of ourselves.

The main reasons are that our self-esteem has been shattered and have very little desire or motivation that it will take you to accomplish these new goals and find the success we all dream about. Just remember these words on this topic.

Show me a person male or female who's never made a mistake, and l will tell you one thing they have never done a thing in their life's this is a fact.

A mistake in life is part of reminding us that we are only humans and should encourage us to step out on a limb, and try something different.

Apply this newly founded attitude as an opportunity to sharpen your knife, and become more creative in your life!!

When you watch this man overcoming the most tragical consequence that one had to deal with as a child, then as an adult you will understand and found the courage to fight back and get your life to where it use to be.




Are you this person All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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Change Your Words, Change Your Life!!

April 3, 2011

Change Your Words, Change Your Life!!

When you read this title what was the first thing that came to your mind, overused phrases we all use over and over again. One or two may or might come to mind immediately, let's trying something here. Let's try an exercise; let's take a phrase that "YOU" consistently say or use over and over again. One we may all use is Have a Nice Day!!! This phrase to me means one thing immediately when l hear it. It has non-committal words like, Nice, Good, they truly have no impact on the listener, depending on who you are talking to.

Now if we just think before using that phrase and change one word, just one word, what would happen to that phrase. Let's try it out and see what l mean by words have the ability to change your life. Take the word "NICE" out of our phrase "Have a Nice Day" and replace it with any word that has an impact, let us use delightful. OK now hear how the phrase sounds like, read it out loud when you are doing this read. Have a delightful day!!

Just one example what yo can do by taking a closer look at the phrases and words you use when you are communicating with family, friends, business, new associates etc. When we develop these skills, we enhance our image immediately. We all need to work on our vocabulary, compliments are ice breakers, then you become much more expressive in your abilities to communicate at a different level. learn simple concepts like this will provide you with the road for success. Success is a road, journey that takes the time to develop and become the person you want to be.

Keep this in mind when you use phrases such as "I prefer" instead of "I hate" this will lower your intensity of your overall emotions. Then when you use this phrase  "I am unstoppable" as to using "I feel good" you now see the impact l am sharing with you at this very moment. Lets develop and sharing some of the best examples you can think of and post it as a comment lets get some award winning phrases lets do it.

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Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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