Always "Move" forward with everything you do!

April 3, 2012

Easier said than done, but we do have this ability if we understand what directions and why we need to do it, then it becomes reality. You have to believe in yourself to be able to move fully forward in whatever it is your doing in life. We all encounter daily obstacles that deprive our thinking and making our set direction more difficult in obtaining our success, we desire. We need to know when to call on others to provide you with the much-needed guidance you’re lacking.  You need to find ways to resolve issues; stop procrastinating them and set a game plan that will give you results.

Understanding your fears and having the ability to let go of your fears is not an easy task at all. The Very complex process, it deals with emotions, and emotions have the abilities to impair your judgment and decisions. When you over think, you become convinced by the visualization you have created in your inner mind. Some call it mind games you play with yourself. The results are usually a waste of human energy. Nothing accomplished or gain in your thinking patterns.

What we need to do is learn how to change this thinking into a positive pattern of thought, illustrating your weaknesses and strengths of your visualization is your first mission.  Always think of the things you did right!  Positive reaffirmation way of thinking and adding conviction to your thinking. Understanding what you did correctly will offset what you did incorrectly; teaching you how to overcome our fears one by one. When we tackle our fears, we deal with them one at a time and mastering that fear into a positive achievement.  Is a step in the right direction of understanding your positive outlook in life, one at a time!

The power of visualization is an “Art” that has been used for centuries by many people from all walks of life who all live in all different countries but understand the power of visualization. Role playing in your mind is an effective way of allowing your brain to become more confidence when it deals with obstacles or any other visualization you played in your mind; it’s a particular movie. How you end it, is your decision you’re in total control of your dreams. Success is never just one race, just when you thinking you have found it, another race begins, so make it a marathon. One can never be too comfortable with the directions and obstacles he will face, but being ready for the challenge; is the attitude that makes "Winners from Losers."

Don’t ever stop trying to be a better person. Took me a long time to fully understand this  "Concept....."

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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What is Synchronicity, What Effects Has It Had On You

February 15, 2012

We all from time to time, we all experienced coincidences that seem to create a form of a special meaning for us and has defied the laws of probability as well. As for an example, the phone suddenly rings from an old long lost friend, for some unknown reason you were just thinking about that person. Or something that you have been dreaming about all of sudden appears in your life. The word Synchronicity was denoted by a Swiss psychologist named Carl Gustav Jung a word that would describe moments of meaningful coincidence.

When we develop an awareness and attention to a coincidence moment, we have experienced it will allow us to grow as humans on this subject. When we concentrate on a particular topic or a phenomenon, then the object of our attention will become stronger. This principle is imperative, because the more we become aware of meaningful coincidences in our life's, the more we will encounter them.

We all have this incredible ability and have no idea how to use it. We all understand that things in our thoughts have a meaning or a relation to an experience we have had. Then we suddenly realize that we had dreamed the nite before actually has happened or reminded you of an event. If you take a few seconds and think about something that had no meaning at all, but the more you thought about it, the more it made sense to you. It takes a time to understand how your mind works.

Why when we sleep, do we dream about things. Then when we wake up, we think about them dreams, thought's, we had that night. Have you ever wondered why you had that dream or thought when you were into a deep sleep. The sub-conscience never sleeps, it allows our thoughts to grow and become who we want to be.

Our whole life is surrounded by views, coincidences that have an important reason on why it occurred. There has been much speculation on this theory, All due to that particular number of the apparent coincidence that will take place in various areas of our lives. I honestly believe there is a reason for an event to occur, it had to do with a factor in your thoughts for it to have happened.

I will give you an example of why l decided to write about this topic. Friday night l was driving home, listening to different talk shows on the radio and flipping back to the music stations when l got bored. I looked at my cell phone and picked it up, why, not so sure; it started to ring, l answered it. It was one of my closest friends l have; we began to talk. He started to talk about a dream he had, that night. As l listen to him, l began to think about what he was saying, knowing he never has been to my house, but he was describing where l lived like he has been here a million times. After he had said all he had said about his dream, l had to ask him one question, have you ever been to my place. He said no, l told him what l though, he asked my why l asked him if l knew the answer already. I said you had just described this area like you been here and the event you shared with me happened three years ago.

Nothing but silence on the phone, then l heard oh my god, your kidding me. I asked him if we ever shared what he just told me to him before. The answer was no. Then l went into detail about the event he described, and he said the same think again, "Oh My God," This blew my mind, knowing that things have a reason for being brought up....

-Have you ever had or experienced this type of event in your life if you have shared it with us.

-Tell us how you felt, what your thoughts were.

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

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What is Your dream in Life

May 15, 2011


We all have dreams, we all want to be accepted and become successful in life, lead, show leadership to our kids and provide them with opportunities in life. So how do we accomplish this? We all try to do this, but we have this ability to change our mind, it is an obstacle, we think we have but do we Nope not at all.  Why??

Simple, we are not focused on our desires and dreams nope we are not this is a problem, how do we fix it or revise it? The million dollar .question. The key is when you wake up in the morning, and you see yourself in that mirror in the bathroom you will see the problem. Your attitude needs to be adjusted, not that bad, you have the ability to change it, just need the desire to do it.

When you see yourself in that mirror, and you realize it, then you have the ability to perform at a different level. And make your dreams come true or goals, we do have this ability you know why l did it that way, my dad told me you like to see the problem, just go to the bathroom, and you will see the problem. "YEP IT WAS ME"

See it is all pretty simple it all starts on how we think and what we desire, question is what do you desire and what are you going to change to make it happen.

No magical dust for success
You need to follow what you will learn today
One day you may thank me, which
l know you will.

All the Best,

Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time

Joseph Botelho

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"Pay Yourself First Because the #Economy that Matters Most... is the One in Your Own #Home" https://t.co/wo7XWWjaFZ pic.twitter.com/VSVAtkJ6El

— Joseph Botelho (@jfbmarketing) January 19, 2016